It's easy to find friends in times of joy and well-being and especially the friendship only interested in enjoying the good life. When things are going well or there is some interest by many people offered us their friendship. The worst is when things do not go without a hitch, as a proverb says that "few are friends of the poor."
True friends are those who share our joys when called and our sorrows without having made known. In other words, a true friendship is one that knows our life to the point that you know when we are going through a bad situation and we comes to comfort, to encourage, to give us a word of encouragement, to sit next to us in the midst of our pain.
A true friendship is known his presence in our affliction. For this feature, we can say with certainty that there are few true friends.
We are surrounded by many people, we have co-workers, neighbors, family sometimes near our house; but amazing how the problems and difficulties seems that problems away from us to friends, when it should be the opposite.
This is because we have a relationship of friendship selfish, many of us do not like to only receive. We need to learn to give starting with our sincere and disinterested friendship. And when it is said to give, is giving without expecting anything in return.
Because if we hoping to receive either fall into selfishness and interest.
If we are honest we can say that it is easy to say but hard to do, just a few we like to give without expecting to receive, and when you touch do you have to fight against ourselves, because we are always remembering what we have.
Said a teacher appreciated: "We should never remember when we give and we should always do when we receive" What can we give? Although it may seem that we have to give, if we scratch the pocket will always be, not necessarily money, or material things.
Many of our friends need a hug, a smile, a call, a word of encouragement, a word of comfort, one saying "I'm with you." If you are a senior who is in a nursing home, or if a friend is sick, you'll be excited to have someone visit you.
If we can, everything is to start, surely someday receive, maybe not the same person but someone who wants to give their sincere friendship and encounters us.