Having an Affair at Work

Surely a lot has happened that someone from his workplace liked, and if so what they often do is hide that taste, because more than anything to prohibit certain companies such relationships in the workplace. However sometimes these romance s consumed in the strictest anonymity, and some others do not become as anonymous as they are discovered by the same coworkers, and even sometimes by the same bosses. The important thing is that if you have feelings for a classmate or coworker, it's good to declare before you consider the advantages and disadvantages of maintaining such a relationship.

Relationship at Work

An advantage of the relationship at work, is that if you work in the same section as your partner, you can see it anytime at all times, and also have the option to meet with him for periods of time for rest and may even lunch together. As stated whether between business rules are not allowed romances between employees, will have to keep their relationship a secret, which in a sense gives a character of exciting, make maximum use for the short time available.

Another advantage is that working in the same workplace, your partner feel close working environment where you unwrap and logically know understand if you had problems involving labor or if you had any problems with your boss, or even be able to understand the grounds on which you are a victim of workplace stress, so no need to tell your cheer sought to enhance your motivation at work. ie communication partner will be much better because there is no need to explain what is causing them distress.

On the other hand it is also convenient as before expressing your feelings and declare your love, you'll have the perfect opportunity to know how it actually behaves with other women, since you'll know for sure his personality and also know if you are over a couple or not, whereupon if the profile meets your looking for in a man or woman, just up to you if you accept it as it is, or it simply will prefer not to try anything.

Finally, the most significant advantage of working in the same place with your partner is the time that will pass and share together, which will make you much more aware of both the good times and difficult times with the problems that may arise in the workplace, so in a roundabout way and will be preparing for a life together, facing their future coexistence, once they are married.

On the other hand the disadvantages that could arise to live a romance with a coworker are several, the most common being the arguments or fights and breakups. So much so that if you get to the end of your relationship, labor issues are you going to keep watching every day like it or not, much worse if your ex starts dating someone else, so really close, and that fact probably comes affect you.

Also the relations that arise in the workplace, lack of authenticity or originality when chatting with friends, as usually the main topic of conversation will always about the work environment, which somehow provoke a routine cause boredom partner, because talking about the same issues cause wear of interest to be doing little motivational talk between couples.  

Jealousy is another negative factor in a relationship that occurs in the same workplace as it is possible for a man jealous of your partner because another coworker gets too close to her or have special attentions to him, is also a girl could also be jealous if he sees another woman gets too close to your partner to talk or consult something.

Besides the topics of conversation are strictly labor matters, always cause discomfort of the couple, which entailed to complaints, fights and probable ruptures.

Another common disadvantage is that often new partners in the workplace will become the center of gossip and hearsay, which often causes discomfort in a natural partner, with consequent wear of the relationship, causing continuous arguments and fights, driving even possible reconciliations, finishing final rupture.